I realised it has been eons since I last updated my blog. It looks so deserted... Can I blame Facebook for it? Keke
A lot of things happened recently, and I'm so tired of it.
I used to think that having a complete family in the early stage of your life is a very blissful thing. But I realised that a complete family is not enough - communications is damn important. And communications comes in as an even-more important role when the couples married for the sake of marrying - when there was not much love to start with.
That's why after what I've witnessed recently, I've decided that I would choose be single for the rest of my life rather than rushing into getting married - why treat this as a rat race and stress yourself to marry?
Ok, I know that at this age, I can have a super romantic relationship anymore since I'm not that young (but I'm still in my mid-twenties! =D), but at least I want to marry with love, and not for a purpose which may lead to a sad ending.
I'm quite glad that my parents are not putting pressure on me, but maybe they know that if they rush me, I'll flare up at them like my still-single cousins who did to their parents. But still, I've quite some kpo friends of parents, or relatives who ask "Why don't wanna look for a boyfriend?", really feel like telling them off, but being polite, I just smiled and say "No good men around". It's like marriage is a simple thing for the older generation you know - you were introduced to each other, then you get married, no matter you like it or not.
Anyway, it's my ramblings again. Haha.
But to make a note, I'm on my 15th lesson for driving, and 6th lesson for vocal class =D
I hope to see my blog soon again. My new resolution is not to abandon it. =X
